Once upon a time, large multi - generational families
accumulated property and capital so that all family members
enjoyed both economic and social security. Though there is much
political talk about family values, large families working for
the common good are a thing of the past and perhaps a thing of
the future. The problem is now. Now we have small, fractured
families with no common purpose and little common interest.
Individuals are becoming increasingly isolated in society. Is
there some kind of social organization to provide us that which
an extended family once did?
It seems to me that interest based partnerships, clubs and
associations could be practical substitutes for extended
families. What argues against such informal groups is the lack
of free time to pursue regular meetings. The great irony is that
group efforts could help free up time for the individual members.
We can use single mothers as an example. One struggling single
mother posts an ad on a neighborhood bulletin board or
electronic board or local printed periodicals. She announces a
new association to assist single mothers in their struggle and
gives contact information. In a few weeks a group is formed and
they schedule a meeting to discuss individual needs and ways
they could work together to fulfill them. One makes a list of
needs and proposed solutions. Meeting adjourns. Every mother
gets a copy of the list to think about for a week or two and
each has contact information for the others.
Now the mothers
have met others in similar situations and have shared ideas with
each other and possibly offers of help. Each mother can now
contact one or more of the others to discuss ideas for pooling
resources, increasing incomes and free time. At the same time,
the mothers can discuss the best ways to provide stability for
the children without the need for fathers. Good father figures
can be found for the group in due time, with mutual security
coming first, eliminating dependencies on unreliable helpers/
lovers.
Perhaps an early project for these mothers would be to find paid
work that can be done at home a few hours per day. Perhaps they
will decide how many could live together in a group home,
reducing housing costs for all, leaving two adults in the home
days to provide child care. If the mothers could find retired
family members who would live in and assist them, so much the
better. The idea is to create an artificial family that serves
the purposes of the natural family.
Because these mothers may have been strangers to one another,
unlike siblings, it would be good for them to get to know each
other beyond superficial appearances. Personal astrological and
numerological reports could be shared with one another, so
individual differences are acknowledged and respected. Such
reports could then be obtained for all the children. All mothers
would then have a good idea of who each child is and their
individual needs. If there are males involved with the group,
their help could be valuable in making connections in the
community and in direct support of the group, including child
care.
Even if an interest based group does not live together, regular
communication among members will help individuals find and avail
themselves of opportunities otherwise lost to those in greatest
need of assistance. Group members could physically meet as
seldom as once a month and still provide a lot of help to each
other, added to the regular informal communication between
individuals.
New world corporations are beginning to organize their labor
force into self help groups but I see voluntary partnerships as
far more productive and flexible. Economic partnerships can pay
partners far better wages or dividends than heavily regulated
and policy oriented corporations. Management and supervisory
costs are minimized.
This is the Information Age. The U.S. manufacturing base is
moving to where labor is cheaper, regulation looser and taxes
lower. There will be far less corporate employment and far more
self employment. Individuals will have difficulty raising
capital for start- up enterprises or expansion of small,
successful enterprises.
Partnerships will improve the ability to raise capital and it is
also likely that credit unions will be aggressively seeking
small businesses in need of capital. As information grows in
volume, organizing it is the wave of the future. Much of the
work can be done at home, which is another rapidly growing trend
among corporate drop outs. Reading and computer skills will
remain in high demand; imagination and problem solving,
likewise.
Instead of waiting for corporate jobs to become available,
Americans should be creating their own jobs. We have been so
dependent on others to do this for us; it seems like a very
difficult task. It is not. Look first to your own personal
interests. Choose any one or two about which you could be
passionate. Ask yourself if when you have learned to do a thing
for yourself, as with a hobby; who might pay you to do the same
for them? When you have answered that question, let your
potential customers know your services are available. If you are
struggling to find time to develop a small business, look for
alternatives in lifestyle that reduce costs, time requirements
and yields higher income for a given investment of your time.
Ask the universe how to achieve what you want on a regular basis
and the answer(s) will appear.
What partnership offers first and foremost is moral support and
reinforcement. Find someone who shares your passion for an idea
and discuss it with them. Don't worry that they will steal it
and leave you in the cold. Anything you can think of can be
improved and a potential partner may force you to do just that.
Being first is good. Being best can be much more profitable.
Partnerships can be re negotiated or dissolved any time they
become unbalanced in their benefits. Beware of legal contracts
that make it expensive for any party to dissolve a partnership
that isn't working well. Agree to simple, basic buy and sell out
options that allow a reasonable recovery of invested capital -
time or money. There is no need to create personal enemies from
failed partnerships. Every failure is a life lesson and
determination will bring you expandable partnerships that work
for all members.
Even solitary individuals can benefit immensely from limited
partnerships where the creator maintains full control of
business operations, if s/he is willing to fairly and promptly
compensate partners. Conscientious labor can be far more
valuable than the cost of its employment, with skillful and
imaginative management. This lesson has been lost on the
corporate world, which sees labor only as a cost to cut.
Much of the American workforce is looking for just two things.
Satisfaction with the work they do and fair compensation for it.
Provide those two things and the fringe benefits for all will
appear as if by magic.
Ed Howes sought and found, knocked and entered. Now he sees things differently. To see more of what he sees, please visit http://www.justanotherview.com or do an author search here at Ezine Articles.